Mae Ling – Confidence, Control & the Psychology of Power Play
Dirty Secrets Ep 033 – 🎙️ Confidence, Control & the Psychology of Power Play (Video Attached)
🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Mae Ling (@adorabledomme)
In this playful and powerful episode, Kate sits down with Mae Ling, a professional dominatrix whose work blends creativity, connection, and the art of empowerment. Mae shares her journey from being a curious college student to building a global clientele seeking guidance, structure, and personal transformation through alternative relationship dynamics.
They talk about consent, self-awareness, rope art, confidence building, and how power play—when done right—can actually heal. From helping clients reconnect with themselves to designing unique sessions based on personality and growth, Mae shows that this world is about more than fantasy—it’s about freedom.
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👑 Host: @thekatykat & @thekatykatvip
🔥 Guest: @adorabledomme & @missmaeling
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Mr. Katy Kat (@mrkatykat) was having a stressful day working on some legal stuff so, I pushed his desk back and got on my knees and gave him a BJ. I was already a few minutes into it and he grabbed the phone to film it. This wasn’t a “let’s make content” situation, it was a personal situation that ended up being content for me to share with you. :)
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What’s inside the set? 6min 40sec video of me, just being on my knees sucking a dick. A real dick. A real Blow Job. Fully explicit, no hiding, no teasing, just real. He cums in my mouth (as always, I like that!) and you do see that it is in there (but I don’t do the “ahhh” mouth to show you) again this wasn’t performative, it was personal. Oh, and I lick up the rest of the drizzle. If you like sensual, real non-performative blowjobs, you might like this one.
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p.s. My account focuses on sex advice, educational videos, and an inclusive community. I earn through photo and video sets, hoping you see it as supporting the entire account. Thank you!
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~Kate
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JOI (Jerk Off Instruction) Video!
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What’s inside the set? 07min 59sec video of me giving you explicit jerk off instructions! Follow along with me until you cum! If you want to cum with me, better get started early cause I cum at the 6min mark. My clit get super swollen and VERY slimy! I even show you! If you are going to get a JOI, make it this one and let’s cume together!
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You can unlock it here OR…
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p.s. My account focuses on sex advice, educational videos, and an inclusive community. I earn through photo and video sets, hoping you see it as supporting the entire account. Thank you!
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~Kate
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What’s inside the set? 28 photos! TWENTY-EIGHT! I'm wearing barely-there pink and white panties with white stockings and flirty garters. 13 of the shots are topless, 4 of kitty (open leg) with a mix of bent-over booty, and spread-leg poses. It’s playful, flirty, and just straight-up exposed by the end.
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p.s. My account focuses on sex advice, educational videos, and an inclusive community. I earn through photo and video sets, hoping you see it as supporting the entire account. Thank you!
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~Kate
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Trying something a little different.
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What’s inside the set? 40min 09sec. YES, you heard me. 40 mins. I am playing around with some ASMR (Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response). This is a video where I am teaching you about sex toys in an ASMR style. If you aren’t familiar, I have priced it so that it was affordable to try. Give me your feedback. I wan to know what you think?
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p.s. My account focuses on sex advice, educational videos, and an inclusive community. I earn through photo and video sets, hoping you see it as supporting the entire account. Thank you!
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~Kate
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